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Award-winning author, advice columnist and talk show host, Dedan Tolbert entered the entertainment industry in 2005 with the release of his award-winning debut novel , "The Love We Had...". Since then, Dedan has dedicated his life to helping women avoid many of…

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Created by Dedan Tolbert May 10, 2010 at 9:33am. Last updated by Dedan Tolbert Mar 13, 2011.

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Healing and Deliverance

Dear Dedan,

I want to express my deep appreciation and gratefulness for the break through you have done in my life. I just began listening to your show last Thursday and have honestly recieved more healing and deliverance from your message, than I have working with my church, a professional therapist and reading every self-help book I could get my hands on for over a year now!

About a year in a half ago, I experienced my first real heartbreak after being cheated on and then left for another woman. Since then I have literally beaten myself up everyday wrecking my brain for the answers and closure my boyfriend did not give me. (You see, his idea of closure was: "You're…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on October 24, 2011 at 7:02pm

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"You helped change my life..."

“Hey Dedan! I was at Sade's concert this weekend and saw this lady in the crowd and thought of you when my boyfriend leaned over to me and said, "I'm so glad you are a classy & beautiful lady. That woman over there has low self-esteem written all over her." Funny thing is, I WAS that lady 10 years ago when I thought putting it all there was how to get "attention." You're right...self-reflection is key!”

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 8:32pm

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"Thank you for the realest advice ever..."

Thanks to you I did pay for the first date w/a gentleman I'm interested in & he said I was the first woman to ever do that. The smile on his face showed his appreciation,but more than anything I appreciated the time he took out of his busy schedule to even want to take me out to dinner so I felt it was the least I could do. He's such a hard working, go getter and I appreciate his sense of dedication and love for his family.

So since I love to cook that's one of the best things I can think to do for him when he has a moment to sit still between work & sleep that I often prepare home-cooked meals for him. He looked at me one day & told me he swore he'd never get married again but…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 5:17pm

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"I'm so grateful..."

Thank you so much for letting God use you to minister to me. I count you in the group of people God used to bring me back to him - and I am so grateful for eternal life and the joy he will bring to me. Thank you for being obedient to God and answering his call and keeping it real!!!

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 5:12pm

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"I owe you so much..."

I owe u so much but I know all I have to do in favor is respect myself keep my legs closed! I finally see why u say what you say! You feel so much better cause when u give ur body away its like giving your soul away! When u do it freely for any man it causes hurt and pain and the expectations of u thinking another man can heal what the other destroyed! You will be counseling my daughter in years to come :) ♥

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:34am

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"Your Loyal College Listeners"

Hey Dedan & Jerald,

Just thought we let you guys know we truly appreciate all the advice you've given throughout the pass year. My sister and I have been listening for a while, and though we are in college, we take each and every lesson you and Jerald discuss on the show, and apply it to our lives.

 (Being emotionally available, keeping our legs closed,paying for the first date, & setting ourselves apart) Just to name a few.

            Those friends we share your advice with think we are crazy of course, and that's cool. (They'll learn…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:00am

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"Already seeing changes in my life..."

Hi Dedan,

I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate you and the other men on the Dedan Tolbert Show.

 

 

 Just today I was thinking that you are all like the brothers we women wish we had. You guys are so honest and direct....and so bold and confident in your discourse. Thank God I found this show because I had given up thinking that men like you all still existed.

Please continue speaking the…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:10am

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'The Big Brothers I Never Had...'

"I think your advice is positive Dedan, and it's the absolute truth. You and Jerald are like the big brothers I never had. I like the fact that you all don't sugar coat anything. Black women need to LISTEN! You and Jerald are only trying to help and empower black women and show us how to receive the love we ultimately want. And for that I say "Thankyou" Dedan and Jerald."

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:05am

 

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"The Dedan Tolbert Show" NOW 7 Nights a Week! - Jan 31,2012

"The Dedan Tolbert Show" is hosted by award winning author, advice columnist and entrepreneur, Dedan Tolbert. Over the last 3 years, thousands of lives have been changed by Dedan Tolbert giving the realest non sugarcoated advice possible while tackling controversial issues like Why So Many Black Women are Single, Why men cheat and many others. Listen live by calling 646 200 0366 or logging onto DedanTolbert.com. For private advice, call 855-55-DEDAN or email me at askdedan@gmail.com.

Dedan Tolbert Show | hy so many successful black women are single | steve harvey show | mike baisden | why black men cheat

Men Who Cry in the Dark- The Emotions of Black Men - Jan 30,2012

We often hear about the emotional side of black women in regards to why they do the things they do. Well, tonight on "The Dedan Tolbert Show" were going to take an in depth look into the emotional side of black men and examine the root of why we do the things we do in dating and relationships. To listen to tonights special on "Black Men Who Cry in the Dark", call into 646 200 0366 or listen online everywhere at www.dedantolbert.com. All archived shows can also be heard on I Tunes.

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Black Women Who Allow Black Men to Hit it RAW - Jan 29,2012

We often hear a lot about black men who dont take of their children but theres little attention being placed on black women who allow these men to continuously hit it RAW. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss the root of the problems that are plauging the black community (HIV, Abortion, fatherless children etc. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online at www.dedantolbert.com

unprotected sex | hy so many successful black women are single | deadbeat dads | hiv | abortion

Are you an ANGRY BLACK WOMAN??? - Jan 28,2012

As a result of being lied to and dogged their entire lives, many black women are mad as hell and arent going to take it anymore. Tonight on "Keeping it Real Fridays", well discuss "The Angry Black Woman Syndrome" and the best ways to avoid carrying around hurt and pain your entire life. Listen to "The Dedan Tolbert Show" at 9:00pm EST 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online at www.DedanTolbert.com

angry black woman | hy so many successful black women are single | steve harvey show | tyler perry | diary of a mad black woman

Common First Date Mistakes - Jan 27,2012

Have you ever been on what you thought was a great date only to have that man never call you or even worse, become only interested in having SEX with you? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss "Common 1st Date Mistakes" and help women avoid being placed into the booty call category. To listen LIVE, call 646 200 0366 or log onto www.dedantolbert.com. All archived shows can be downloaded on I Tunes.

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Dont waste years of your life

Ladies...Don't waste years of your life waiting for a man to commit to you. We as men know that when we truly see a future with you, we take you off the market rather quickly. It doesn't take until 5:00pm to know its going to be a sunny day. Never…Continue

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A strong woman

"A strong woman admits when she's hurt and faces her problems head on. She never takes her eye off the ball...especially not for a man."Continue

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personality and character 1 Reply

When you show off your personality and character, men will want to get to know you for YOU… When you show off your chest and ass, men will want to get to know you for THAT. Being respectable and classy is the only way to be taken seriously when it…Continue

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Saturday Night SEX

Saturday night SEX can be great...What's not so great is the guilt and conviction you feel on Sunday morning. I think we all know its not worth it. The Bible says to "never cast your pearls among swine" for a reason. You only wake up feeling dirty...Continue

Started by Dedan Tolbert Oct 11, 2011.

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