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Dedan Tolbert, LBT

Christian Relationship Counselor

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Created by Dedan Tolbert May 10, 2010 at 9:33am. Last updated by Dedan Tolbert Jan 7.

Dedan Tolbert is a Licensed Relationship Counselor, Award Winning Author & Host of "The Dedan Tolbert Show", which airs 7 Nights a week.

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Healing and Deliverance

Dear Dedan,

I want to express my deep appreciation and gratefulness for the break through you have done in my life. I just began listening to your show last Thursday and have honestly recieved more healing and deliverance from your message, than I have working with my church, a professional therapist and reading every self-help book I could get my hands on for over a year now!

About a year in a half ago, I experienced my first real heartbreak after being cheated on and then left for another woman. Since then I have literally beaten myself up everyday wrecking my brain for the answers and closure my boyfriend did not give me. (You see, his idea of closure was: "You're…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on October 24, 2011 at 7:02pm

"You helped change my life..."

“Hey Dedan! I was at Sade's concert this weekend and saw this lady in the crowd and thought of you when my boyfriend leaned over to me and said, "I'm so glad you are a classy & beautiful lady. That woman over there has low self-esteem written all over her." Funny thing is, I WAS that lady 10 years ago when I thought putting it all there was how to get "attention." You're right...self-reflection is key!”

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 8:32pm

"Thank you for the realest advice ever..."

Thanks to you I did pay for the first date w/a gentleman I'm interested in & he said I was the first woman to ever do that. The smile on his face showed his appreciation,but more than anything I appreciated the time he took out of his busy schedule to even want to take me out to dinner so I felt it was the least I could do. He's such a hard working, go getter and I appreciate his sense of dedication and love for his family.

So since I love to cook that's one of the best things I can think to do for him when he has a moment to sit still between work & sleep that I often prepare home-cooked meals for him. He looked at me one day & told me he swore he'd never get married again but…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 5:17pm

"I'm so grateful..."

Thank you so much for letting God use you to minister to me. I count you in the group of people God used to bring me back to him - and I am so grateful for eternal life and the joy he will bring to me. Thank you for being obedient to God and answering his call and keeping it real!!!

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 5:12pm

"I owe you so much..."

I owe u so much but I know all I have to do in favor is respect myself keep my legs closed! I finally see why u say what you say! You feel so much better cause when u give ur body away its like giving your soul away! When u do it freely for any man it causes hurt and pain and the expectations of u thinking another man can heal what the other destroyed! You will be counseling my daughter in years to come :) ♥

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:34am

"Your Loyal College Listeners"

Hey Dedan & Jerald,

Just thought we let you guys know we truly appreciate all the advice you've given throughout the pass year. My sister and I have been listening for a while, and though we are in college, we take each and every lesson you and Jerald discuss on the show, and apply it to our lives.

 (Being emotionally available, keeping our legs closed,paying for the first date, & setting ourselves apart) Just to name a few.

            Those friends we share your advice with think we are crazy of course, and that's cool. (They'll learn…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:00am

"Already seeing changes in my life..."

Hi Dedan,

I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate you and the other men on the Dedan Tolbert Show.

 

 

 Just today I was thinking that you are all like the brothers we women wish we had. You guys are so honest and direct....and so bold and confident in your discourse. Thank God I found this show because I had given up thinking that men like you all still existed.

Please continue speaking the…

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Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:10am

'The Big Brothers I Never Had...'

"I think your advice is positive Dedan, and it's the absolute truth. You and Jerald are like the big brothers I never had. I like the fact that you all don't sugar coat anything. Black women need to LISTEN! You and Jerald are only trying to help and empower black women and show us how to receive the love we ultimately want. And for that I say "Thankyou" Dedan and Jerald."

Posted by Dedan Tolbert on September 20, 2011 at 11:05am

 

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"The Dedan Tolbert Show" 7 Nights a Week

"The Dedan Tolbert Show is hosted by Award winning Author, Relationship Counselor & Advice Columnist, Dedan Tolbert and airs 7 nights a week at DedanTolbert.com. For relationship advice or to schedule a private one on one counseling session, send an email to askdedan@tolbertrelationshipcounseling.com or visit tolbertrelationshipcounseling.com.

"Preachers of LA... True Men of God or False Prophets"

Whether you love it, hate it, or have never seen it at all…Everyone's talking about the Oxygen Network's controversial hit show, ?Preachers of LA?, that centers around the personal and professional lives of several ministers. After receiving hundreds of emails, texts, and inbox messages asking us to discuss this show…tune into ?The Dedan Tolbert Show? tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our 3 hour special, where we discussed: fallout from the show, the effect it's having on the perception of the black church, and how to discern true men of God from false prophets seeking fame/fortune. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... ?Real Radio that Matters?.

"I'm in Love With a Church Girl... Why Good Girls Like Bad Boys"

In today's society, we're seeing more and more self proclaimed ?women of God/ virtuous women?, dating/having sex with thugs and known drug dealers. A great example of this trend is shown in the recent movie, ?I'm in Love With a Church Girl?, starring Ja Rule. Tune into ?The Dedan Tolbert Show? tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our in depth analyzation of the movie and a discussion on why so many women claim to live for the Lord, yet choose men who clearly aren't doing so. Listen 7 nights a week, 365 days a year by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... ?REAL Radio that Matters.?

"Class vs Ass...Hollywood's Definition of Beauty"

Did you miss our special on ?Hollywood's Definition of Beauty?, Beyonce being named Time Magazine's Most Influential Person, Lupita Nyong'o being named People Magazine's Most Beautiful Woman, how men feel about women with weaves, tattoos, piercings and relaxed hair vs natural hair? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that Matters".

"About Last Night.... Dating 101" ...*LIVE 3 Hour SUPER SHOW*

In a perfect world, dating & relationships would be free of any types of games, lies or other forms of manipulation, often leading to mass confusion. Please join us LIVE tonight at 9:00pm EST on ?The Dedan Tolbert Show? for our highly anticipated special on ?About Last Night: Dating 101?, for an in depth break down of the blockbuster film starring Kevin Heart and answers to many of the most popular questions surrounding the do's and don'ts of dating such as: Sex or no sex, appropriate style of dress, dating someone with a past or current addiction, relationship recycling, chivalry and whether or not it's dead….and MANY other provocative topics! Feel free to call in with comments/questions to 646 200 0366 or listen LIVE online worldwide at wwww.dedantolbertshow.com… ?REAL Radio that Matters? #10years

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Hurt and Pain 1 Reply

Ladies...No matter what type of hurt and pain men have put you through, God can turn things around and bless you with a great man who'll be everything you've ever dreamed of. Never let a broken heart cause you to question your belief in true love…Continue

Started by Dedan Tolbert. Last reply by sunset72 May 9, 2012.

Blaming yourself 2 Replies

Ladies…After the end of a turbulent, toxic relationship, the worst thing you can do is blame yourself. Extensive Self-reflection and examination is healthy…but blame is exactly what the devil wants you to do. Instead of beating yourself up, just…Continue

Started by Dedan Tolbert. Last reply by Jamilah Aug 30, 2013.

Lust of Men

Never confuse the love of God for the lust of men. A man telling you you're sexy is nothing compared to hearing God tell you He loves you.Continue

Started by Dedan Tolbert May 3, 2012.

Love is a two way street

Late Night Advice: LOVE is a two way street...If you're going down a "one way", you need to turn around and go in a different direction with your life.Continue

Started by Dedan Tolbert Apr 30, 2012.

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